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Melanie Behrner, BA, RPC

Registered Professional Counsellor (CPCA #2175)


Counselling, coaching, facilitating workshops & training counsellors for a decade and a half

PASSION FOR A LIFE LIVED WELL
I am passionate about living the best life possible. This means living life with a deep sense of joy, peace and connection, and where I experience the true freedom that comes from not being ruled by emotional reactivity.
TRANSFORM SUFFERING INTO A GIFT
I lived the first half of my life on an emotional roller coaster. My moods were subject to the people around me. If they were displeased, I felt I had to change. If they were upset, I tried to fix it. I yearned to experience peace, joy and stability but had no idea how. I pretended to the outside world that I was fine. But on the inside I felt very alone and like no one understood me. It left me in some dark places.

FROM CHAOS TO THE EYE OF THE STORM
I learned that every upset in my life was the key to finding that solid, calm centre within myself that I longed for. Upsets became opportunities to achieved what I longed for most: to be the calm in the middle of any storm. It was difficult to walk into my fear that held me prisoner, but I didn't have to do it alone. I surrounded myself with skilled people who held me gently and supported me to my current-day experience of emotional freedom.
We immediately become more effective when we decide to change ourselves
rather than asking things to change for us. ~Stephen Covey


THE SECRET OF HAPPINESS: AN ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDE
I feel blessed for all I've learned that affords me the rich, satisfying life I have. This includes a joy-filled, connected relationship with my husband where I feel safe to bring the most vulnerable parts of myself. I am grateful for the privilege of raising an amazing son who not only fills my heart but shows me where I still have room to grow. Finally, I am blessed to live on the beautiful Sunshine Coast of BC where I enjoy living in harmony with nature, hiking, kayaking, gardening and the beautiful community of friends I have cultivated in Roberts Creek. I count my blessings not just for all the wonderful things in my life, but also for all of the struggles as they have added a rich depth to who I am.
Commmitted to life-long learning

Experience


  • Counselling Adults, Youth & Couples

  • Support Group & Workshop Facilitator

  • Instructor: Counsellor Training Program (Clearmind International)

  • Workshop Development

  • Holotropic Breath Work Facilitator

  • Youth Rites of Passage Programs

  • High-Risk Youth Support

  • Adaptive Learning & Programing

Education


  • Registered Professional Counsellor -- Canadian Professional Counsellor’s Association, since 2007

  • Diploma of Transpersonal Counselling Psychology -- Clearmind International Institute, 2007

  • Bachelor of Arts (Psychology) -- SFU, 2004

  • Certified Life Coach -- Rhodes Career College, 1999

Professional Development

  • Psychology of NSSI, 2024

  • CSRT, 2023-24

  • Developmental Model of Couples Therapy - Level 2, 2022-23

  • Transforming Hostile Dependent Couples, 2022

  • Developmental Model of Couples Therapy - Level 1, 2022

  • Managing the Crisis of Infidelity, 2022

  • Somatic Interventions for Chronic Pain & Syndromes with Peter Levine, 2022

  • Treating Trauma Master Series, 2022

  • Reclaiming the Core Self Through Fierce Love, 2021

  • Advanced Master Program in the Treatment of Trauma, 2021

  • Trauma: Confusion to Clarity, 2020

  • Transform Trauma through “Fierce Love” (AEDP), 2020

  • AEDP Basics, 2020

  • Positive Discipline (Parenting), 2020

  • Suicide Prevention Summit, 2019

  • Neufeld Parenting Conference, 2015

  • Pure Energy Level 1, 2013

  • Making Sense of Aggression, Neufeld Institute, 2013

  • Neufeld Parenting Conference, 2013

  • Pranic Healing, Level 1, 2011

  • Working in Difficult Situations, 2010

  • Ongoing monthly supervision